“This can’t be right,” I mutter to myself. The man across from me glances up in surprise from his double latte and Time Out magazine. I cast him an apologetic look — one that hopefully says, “No, I’m not crazy. Just an out of work, single actress here for the cheap hot cocoa and free Wi-Fi.” I […]
We have all been there. We have all been with that person who brings the “crazy” out in us. We don’t know why we’re acting the way we are, but our actions and decisions are not rational. We are not ourselves. The relationship is explosive. Exciting? Yes. But ultimately, Destructive. Can this type of relationship […]
WHEN IS THE WORK TOO MUCH WORK? When you ask most kids what super power they would choose, they usually say, “the ability to fly,” or, “invisibility” or “super strength.” My super power was, and has always been, “to stop time, reverse it, and to fast forward…” I am sure there are repercussions I don’t […]
ARE YOU IN A CODEPENDENT RELATIONSHIP? Throughout the interview process for “Me+You,” one topic seemed to surface over and over again: Many couples stated that they loved their partners so much that they “wouldn’t know where they would be without them.” It is a lovely sentiment…but it caused me to wonder where the fine line […]
IS ARGUING HEALTHY FOR A RELATIONSHIP? From time to time you meet that one couple: “Oh we NEVER fight…” They’re so lovey-dovey that they kind of make you want to kick their teeth in. They just seem PERFECT. If only you could be in a relationship like that. Well, their relationship may not be as […]
A little while ago I wrote a blog on forgiveness. Forgiveness not only heals past relationships, it allows current relationships to thrive. In order to have a healthy relationship with anyone, you MUST learn how to forgive and release negative energy. This allows the law of attraction to bring new love and healthy relationships into […]
“If you are looking for love and not finding it, it is no doubt because of a lack of forgiveness in some area of your life. This is true for everyone. Look at your life, your past, all of your relationships and ask yourself, ‘Where have I not forgiven?’ Myself, my parents, my siblings, my […]
On the Me+You facebook page I recently asked the question: “What would your definition of a healthy relationship be?” I received these answers in response: Mutual respect. A shared sense of humor. Unfaltering trust the other one will cherish your heart enough to never break it. Trust. Compromise. Communication. Forgiveness. I’m starting to wonder if all of […]
WHAT IS THE FOUNDATION OF A GOOD RELATIONSHIP? This year I have often asked myself the question, “What does being in a good relationship mean to me?” I have loved. I have been hurt. I have hurt. I have learned to protect my heart. I have learned to cherish myself. And I have learned to […]